Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I’m on the average tall size, barely above average face, pretty lean figure. I tend to only attract dumb women, if I wear glasses, will I finally start meeting smart girls?
Answer:
See dude… The answer is “kinda”. I mean sure, wearing or not wearing glasses can SOMEWHAT influence what type of women are attracted to you, because it will change up their initial stereotyping of you. For example “glasses = intelligent, oh wow, he might be a cool intelligent guy”… But I have bad news for you – this is not your problem!
If you’re consistently not attracting intelligent, smart, sassy women, its not your lack of glasses. Its something a lot more devious. It has a lot more to do with how you act, how you come across, the types of friends you have and the circles you run around in.
I’m pretty confident you don’t spend most of your free time in seminars on quantum physics, astronomy lectures or amateur rocketry clubs. How do I know this? Because its impossible to meet “dumb chicks” at these places, and this is what you claim to keep meeting. My first recommendation is to make a list of all the hobbies, activities and places you’d think about becoming a regular at. Then filter it down to only places and activites that involve meeting other people. Then go and do these things.
The double bonus here is not only that you will get to meet a lot more smart women, but you will also become a more attractive man! Why? Because women love a guy who’s living a fun, activity filled life where he’s doing a bunch of stuff he enjoys. Trust me on this one. You’ll be surprised how much more women you attract when you’re fullfilled and wake up excited and have that “can’t wait to see what we do at the photography class later today” kind of a vibe.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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First of all, on a personal level, I absolutely adore men in glasses..there is something rather academic about that look that really gets me.
That being said, glasses isnt necessarily going to attract “smart” women to you. A truly smart woman should not only go for a man just because he wears glasses. Smart women look beyond physicality into the true essence of a guy and how his personality and other intrinsic qualities that define who they are.
Be confident in what you are working and know that you are worthy of any girl’s affections, and thus should not have to change who you are to accomodate someone else’s wishes. Be kind to people that you meet and be the person that you want others to be: treat people that are around you and that you meet with decency and respect and the same thing will come back to you. A “smart” girl will see that and be attracted to you because of who you truly are and not what you look like. Good luck and i’m sure there is someone out there for you that will love you without any intentions of changing you!
Yes but you have to make sure they are the hypnotic smart glasses and you will be a smart woman magnet.
It’s not ALL looks… it’s more your “frame” or how you make others around you feel about you. If you come across as an immature guy, you’re going to repel serious intelligent women.
Lol…. No. Maybe you could try joining a club or going places that smarter girls may be.
you didnt mention your hair lol!