If you’ve been around for a while, you’ve no doubt noticed this phenomenon. For some reason older women seem to be much easier to attract. And you thought it was just you? Maybe you’ve even wondered something like “Why do I attract so many more older women than younger ones my age”? Well, I’m to reveal the secret to you.
The truth is, its not you. Its women and how they change over age.
1) Women get more realistic
When they’re young, they still believe Mr. prince charming will fly into their lap, and all they have to do is be themselves. They haven’t actually assessed whether they’re worth a prince, but for some reason they think they deserve nothing less than a prince.
As these girls grow into women, they start becoming more realistic. They start trusting their feelings, and showing interest in whoever truly turns them on. Whereas if she looked at you in her younger days – she’d suppress any feelings of attraction. Today, as she’s older, she’s let go of her idealizations. She sees you, and the attractions she feels for you.
2) Courage & Maturity
When girls are young, just like when guys are young… they feel a lot more insecure and confused about showing interest. I bet there’s just as many young chicks who are turned onto you as there are older hotties… The truth is the young ones are still scared and confused about how to act. They don’t know if they should display that interest. What if she looks easy? But should she just hint? Oh but wait what if…
Whereas when she gets older, she lets go of all that stuff and just goes for what she wants. A common thought I hear in older women is “I can’t believe I delayed and was so picky with sex when I was younger, I missed out on so much! Today I just go for and get what I want.”
3) So how do you use this knowledge to attract younger women?
If you know that the only reason she seems more difficult to pick up is because she doesn’t have the experience, it then becomes much easier. How? Well, you take on the role of the experienced one. You assume that through your experience, you will be able to melt her defenses and wariness.
If you know that the only reason she’s somewhat reserved, confused and weird about sex, is societal upbringing… Then you can be patient, understanding and smooth with her. Just use my best trick ever. As she’s standing there, this 21 year old hottie, actually imagine that she’s now 33, and actually feels sorry she didn’t make more use of her young sexuality. Actually convince and imagine yourself of this. Imagine the 33-year old version is standing next to you, and talk to her as-if she’d already passed the young obstacles.
I know it sounds weird, but women are like emotional mirrors. If you treat her like she’s already sexually liberated, she will respond in kind! And if you find this whole concept weird, go out and try it. What does it cost you to try it? Nothing. Just try it and see what happens. You will be pleasantly surprised how young women act when you act this way.
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