Do you find attracting women to be a chore? Do you sometimes feel like its all about “getting lucky” and you have no control over it? Do you sometimes feel like its all a numbers game!
Well let me reveal a cool well-held secret to you… It is in fact a numbers game, it always will be. Even the best of the best playas and seducers in the world face the numbers game. They fail to get a woman much more often then they get one.
So how does this relate to you? How does this help you make attracting a woman easier? Well, its actually quite simple and easy my friend! You see, all those playas and seducer all have in common that they’ve found a system or a way of attracting women that makes the reality of the numbers-game effortless and fun. Let me reveal to you some of these systems.
1) The quick take-it-or-leave-it system – I have a friend who dates an unbelievable amount of hot women. And he has absolutely no time to go out or socialize. So how does he meet these women? Simple, he has made the numbers-game work for him. He simply walks up to every hot woman he sees through the day, and does a quick “take it or leave it offer”.
Again, he’s an extremely busy guy who has no time to socialize. He just walks up to the women, states that he is “I’m kind of in a hurry, but I just had to stop by and say hi, I’m Bob”. Asks them maybe 1 or 2 questions and goes “Cool, well I have to get going, if you’d like to talk more, drop me a text here” as he hands them his cell phone number. You might say, oh but wait, what if they don’t call? So what, its always a numbers game. Even if he stayed and talked for hours, and persisted in him getting their numbers… he’d waste a bunch of time calling each one, to find out which is interested in more.
This way he simply “plants seeds”. If the woman is interested, she can reach out. If not, big deal, he just spent 2 minutes. So he does this maybe 5-10 times a day as he’s about his day… And gets maybe 1-2 girls to text him. So he’s just only spent 10-20 minutes a day, and its completely effortless and involves no rejection or effort. He’s just doing a quick “take it or leave it” kind of a thing.
2) The super-duper social guy – This is another guy I know who’s made attracting a woman super easy and effortless. He’s a bit different than the other guy because he socializes quite a bit. In fact, his method consists of always being at a ton of social venues. He goes into those, and is just super-social. He literally says “hey”, “Hi”, “Hello”, “how’s it going” to every single hot woman he passes by.
At the same time, he’s always with a big group of people that he organized to go out… And he’s just having fun and entertaining them all. So how does he attract women then? Its simple, when you are seen to be with a group where you are the leader, other women in that place (party, club) all of a sudden show increased interest in you. They want to be with you, and many of them will boldly start staring at you and trying to get your attention.
Now remember how he said hi and hello to everyone he passed by of the hot women? Guess what? Those women are now also intrigued by him, and if interested they will feel more comfortable to be aggressive in sending him signals. What he does next, when he has this whole room of women who are vying to get his attention, he simply walks up and starts talking to them.
The way he really increases the attraction is that he cuts it short. She’s staring at him. He approaches her, says a few things, then exits and goes to the other hot woman was eyeing him in the other group. And does this all night. What happens is the women become extremely competitive and they start fighting trying to seduce him. In essence he’s never doing anything to get women. He has built up this sytem where they’re chasing him, and it works to effortlessly attract women.
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