Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I’m thin and fit and handsome and im half extrovert and introvert. I can be shy at times but who isn’t and i play guitar and sing . I have a job and going to college and i am pursuing to be a firefighter.
Answer:
Ever noticed how most guys who are killer with women don’t really seem to have much going on? Some of the best, coolest, smartest guys you know can’t get a date if their live depended on it… And some guys are always with a new, hotter woman and you’re like “WTF? How does he do that!”
Want to know the secret? What these guys tend to do is ussually have the same secrets that the jerk has. By far, the number one thing that makes women attracted to you is a careless attitude. A true mindset of not givign a F*** if girls like you or not. This is such a powerful biological mindset, that a girl will rather go for an unemployed loser living in his mom’s basement, than an all around good guy… who happens to be needy.
There, I mentioned that evil word again… NEEDY… What this is… is the NUMBER ONE nail in the coffin of attraction. Nothing makes women run away from you faster than a sense of neediness. If you act like you have to have a girl… then you will repel them. If you act like you couldn’t care less what women think… Women will beat down a door to try to get you to like them.
Now, a lot of guys who have this trait are like that by nature, they just happen to have developed like that… they don’t care. But you can do it too in a way that’s really enriching. What I suggest is you go and build such a fun, interesting cool busy life, that you literally don’t have time to think about women or getting them! Join as many clubs, organizations, activities, groups as you can. Start a business, start a few personal projects… Literally get to a point where you’re meeting and socializing with different people all day… and you’re just so into your life… that women will have to chase you down to be with you.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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A sense of humor is key, but you either have that or you don’t. And when talking to girls, treat them as if they’re real people you can connect with. Don’t make dating your obvious agenda. It will make both of you less nervous, and if she seems interested, then you can suavely ask her out for coffee. Really, just be yourself.
Also: guitar playing is hot.
Like the chick said, be yourself, but she did not elaborate. Don’t try to impress women, at ALL. Do not worry about what they will think of you. Be Alpha. If you don’t know what that means, check out the website in source.