Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Do women notice body language? I have noticed many guys usually shy away from girls, and always needy and leaning in toward them and breaking eye contact very quickly. Most of these guys dont really succeed when it comes to women, however on the other side of the spectrum are those confident bad boy guys that stare into your eyes for eternity and move their body so slow it looks like their underwater.. A perfect ex of a person that does these are James Dean, and Rudolf Valentino, and for girls of this gen. Johnny Depp
I notice girls always go for the badboy guys, but does their body language attract women subconsciously, or are the girls aware of their attitude and such.
My answer:
Not only are the girls attracted to bad boys subconsciously, but the bad boys themselves demonstrate their body language subconsciously.
Women aren’t logical beings at all, and they don’t look for logical signs in body language.
Confident men are confident internally, which automatically shows in their body language. They don’t go out and say to themselves “hey, let’s see how I’m going to emulate James Bond today by turning around very slow”. Unless they are guys who learned about body language, they won’t do it consciously. It will be automatic and a habit for them.
The same thing stands for women. When women see a confident bad boy going acting all smooth with his body language, they don’t think “hmm, his body language suggest confidence, I think I am going to feel attraction for him”. It’s simply automatic and hard wired in women.
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I think women who fall for the bad boys are just looking for excitement. Or they all think they can change him. Which they cant and eventually get burned.
im not usually one to go for the badboy type but others usually think that that kindof stuff is cool and they feel the need to change them into their perfect guy. WIERD!
ummm i dont kno ive never really payed attention too that. im a girl oviously but i have nooo clue if we girls watch ur body language…
I am always more attracted to the guy that touches my arm, my lower back when going through a door, etc… those small things ALWAYS get me, no matter what…but maybe that’s just because I’m horny and love the feeling haha
but yea a lot of girls go for the bad boy type because they are usually entertaining, fun to pleasure, mysterious…
It’s not that we really like the bad boys. We like their confidence, and, yes, that is shown through their body language.
I think body language is very important.
But more so confidence.
But don’t get that confused with cock!ness.
Focusing your attention to the girl you want to focus on and look her in the eyes when she is talking to you and when you are talking to her isn’t “bad boy”
It is being focused and shows them that you are interested.
When I said confident I mean not twitching and babbling and checking the girl out every five seconds.
Think how girls feel!
Now that’s an entire different conversation!
man… first of… i kinda not agree that girls always go for the badboy … ( with perspective that oh maybe i can change their attitude or bad boys are more cool ) cuz if girls are after bad boys that means those kind of girls are not good for serious relationship
or at least for the relationship itself.
secondly, i suppose they aware of their body langguange just cuz bad boys always giving those body langguage
cuz they are bad boys obviously.
about the girls aware of their attitude and such, well i think if they like those boys with that kind of attitude … she might have a problem … sistahh.. haha
hmmmmm…….. i have 2 say, i really dont notice “body langauge.” No, thats not true. i always feel uncomfortable around bad boys. i always look for the attitude and such. but looks always matters. tehehe. =D