Most of us don’t want to admit it, but like my favorite comedian says, we’re just monkeys that can talk. Sure we got all these fancy and complex technologies and rituals… But at our essence, when it comes to your most basal needs, we’re just monkeys. When it comes to mating and sexual reproduction we’re driven by primitive instincts more than we care to admit.
Women are especially interesting to me in terms of this subject. A woman will actually see a man, get attracted to his mating signals, on a primitive animal level… And then what does she do? Does she say my animal brain got turned on by his mating body-language? No, she makes some conscious rationalization like “Oh, I like how he dresses”. If you’ve ever been confused about why women don’t make sense when it comes to dating, this is the reason. Most of what they say is just a conscious rationalization for what they end up doing.
So what you want to do, is you want to master sexual body language to attract women. You want to become a master at communicating “sex, now” to women. Now of course, don’t get me wrong, you can’t make every woman have sex with you by just having the right body-language. It does however increase your chances severely.
Play with me for a second…
As you’re reading this article, I want you to imagine a hot woman standing right in front of you. Maybe she’s in the monitor or right here, instead of this text. Now imagine that you’re looking straight into her eyes. As you’re looking straight in her eyes, put yourself in the “mating mindset”. I mean literally look at her while saying with your eyes “I’m soooooo having wild monkey love with you tonight, and you… you are going to love it”. Do it, just put yourself in that mindset.
What happens? Do you feel your facial expression change? Are you getting more of a sexy look? Do you feel sexier? Do your eyes start squinting and you find yourself getting this sly, cocky smile? Yep. Its that simple.
The very first time I learned this trick from my mentor, I tried it on a hot neighbor. She came over to my place to use the printer (as she had done many times over the years, nothing sexual at all)… So I decided to play this trick on her. As we were talking about this completely asexual subject, and I was setting the printer and what not… I just started imagining like she and I are having wild sex.
She’d ask about some internet website, and I’d turn to her… but… respond in this… slow… erotic way as if I was describing how I’m going to do her. Before you know it, she picked up on it, and started staring in my lips as we are talking about the most boring, technical subject. You can guess how the story ended.
But remember, we are still at a deep level animals. We’re programmed to respond to mating signals. For example most of women’s make up is nothing but various ways to fake women’s mating signals. Things like red cheeks, lipstick and high heels are all designed to turn on a man, by faking the natural mating signals of the human animal.
Well, you could go ahead and learn all the male signals, and learn the sexual body-language of men, but you’ll find its too much work. What I suggest is letting it come out naturally, by just focusing on your thoughts. Just try my exercise… as… you… are talking to a woman… just imagine you are … having… wild.. monkey love… as you… look into… her eyes. Notice what happens and let me know!
Sexual body language is used massively to enhance sex and survival as main ingredients of reproduction. One of the major biological assignment in life is to find a mate who can help us pass on our genes through offsprings. This is in every other species and is as old as time. If a being lacks the sexual drive they do not reproduce therefore they simply become extinct. Human beings live in defined social groups and communities. To avoid bad sexual behavior and overt romantic competition conventional dating rules were invented. The set codes of conduct involves finding a mate, flirting and reproduction. Deviation from these cultures are highly punishable.
In most cultures having sex before marriage is an abomination which receives a lot of public criticism and severe consequences. Customary rules advocate for acceptable sexual behavior. Lessons on how to have sex and reproduce are forcefully and subtly taught to people. Incase their is any deviation from these rules their is a big price to pay. Sexual urges are still publicly revealed despite the social pressure to stick to the riles. This does not have to be spoken out since it is clearly read from our sexual body language.
One of the sexual body language is revealed through a standing posture where the thumbs are deeply set in the pockets. It is a sexy posture that says it better than any word. It emphasizes great sexuality. He will casually stand like this mostly while facing a woman who sexually appeals to him. He is using the body language to communicate that “You know i want you badly, can’t we go to work?”. You should notice that the fingers are pointing down to the area of sexual interest. Guys will seriously claim it is a comfortable and relaxed way to stand but we can read the body language. Women also use certain body language to attract attention from men and show their sexuality. It is like they say ‘hey, i am a female look at me!’ It is like she is unconsciously posing to advertise her sexuality.
A woman will use her eyes to tell you what you mean to her. She might not say it but her eyes betray her. If she wants some sex action you will read the passion in her eyes. Women are emotional and if you maintain less proximity between the two of you, there is a possibility that you will end up kissing. She used her sexual body language to entice you. Body language is strong than any customs and will come out louder than than any word. Women use their sexual body language to attract or reject men. Men’s body language gives women enough information to help them make the decisions over time. This provides an opportunity for the woman to choose the most desirable man to mate with and develop a long lasting relationship. You thought dating and courtship was meant for romance but it all boils down to maintaining the species or preventing the species from becoming extinct.
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