Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: What i would like to find out is what womens body language means, so i know how to react in different situations.
Like, if a girl is attracted to me in some way how will she act, while being subtle about it. What signs are what?
(not like comming up and being all over me, coz thats obvious hehe) also.
If i want to make an impression on a girl how should i . . . approach, strike convo (what to talk about), etc, and how to tell if she is interested or bored?
anything else that you could think of would be great!
Answer: Oh, its easy dude. See, even though girls are different and they have different signals, there are some universal ones that if you put them together can give you a pretty good picture when a girl is attracted to you.
The biggest difference between a party or a non-party enviroment is how direct she will be in displaying the interest. In a party enviroment it will be more with positioning, and less with words. In a non-party environment it will be a smile, and the words used (flirting).
Some girls are able and willing to look at you and smile when interested, some are not… But the thing they ALL do when interested in you at a party, is they start coming closer and closer to you. What you will notice, is that if you look at a girl you like, and smile at her… If she’s interested… what will happen is that during the night she will come closer and closer to you, until she’s pretty much dancing right beside you. This is the most consistent signals I’ve found women doing.
If she’s more confident, she’ll use her eyes, as in… You turn towards her and glance her way, and she turns your way and glances at you.
So basically, in a party enviroment, the best and strongest sign is… Does she make it easier for you to approach her? Is she going out of her way to make it easier for you to approach her and talk to her? This is either positiniong herself closer to you throughout the night… OR continually glancing your way.
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If a person strokes their hair specially when you are looking, if they sit with their toes pointing towards you, wherever their face is turned to, you have a chance
She’ll glance your way, and when she gets your attention, will break eye contact by looking down with a smile. She’ll play with her hair while talking or looking at you. She’ll lean back in her chair or change her stance to leave an open space.
You should concoct an errand that sends you past her — stop and pay a specific compliment or comment about the environment — if she smiles up at you, comment on her smile. Avoid cheesy pickup lines.
If you get to the point where you’re talking, you know you’re floundering if she stops making eye contact, starts looking around the room, stops smiling and answers your questions in monosyllables.
If she leans into your space, mimics your actions, lightly touches you, and seems sparkly and interested, you’re making the right impression.
when i like a guy, if i spot him across the room in a bar, resteraunt or where ever, i will look at him up and down then look in his eyes and then give him a sexy smile.
i make sure he sees me giving him the once over and then a smile because it shows him i like what i saw.
i like it when guys aproach me and have a sexy opening line… complements work too but not over kill. like “you have nice eyes… or i love that dress,,, or a simple you look amazing” is often enough.
talk about anything as long as it isnt always a sexual inuendo… do not talk about the weather or boast about what u do for a living that is crass! and god… weather talk is like u are fishing for a convo! make something up lol