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I have noticed many guys usually shy away from girls, and already needy and leaning in toward them and breaking eye contact very quickly. Most of these guys don’t really succeed when it comes to women, however on the other side of the spectrum are those confident bad boy guys that stare into your eyes for eternity and move their body so slow it looks like their underwater.. A perfect ex of a person that does these are James Dean, and Rudolf Valentino, and for girls of this gen. Johnny Depp
I notice girls always go for the badboy guys, but does their body language attract women subconsciously, or are the girls aware of their attitude and such.
My quick answer to this question:
I think you’re overanalyzing this dude 
You should leave the analyzing to my personalized secret quiz when you take it. Sure, you can learn by watching the body language of guys who attract women – but its not very practical. Yes, having a certain body-language, cause women to be attracted to you more or less. However, body-language is extremely hard to fake. You’d need 20 years to master it, and it would still fail some times.
So what do you do? Simple! Focus on BEING that guy. The body-language is the symptom! When you are the a certain guy, and you think, and feel like that guy does, your body will automatically move like he does. So what do all these badboys have in common? They are INDIFFERENT. That’s the definition of a “badboy”. They’re not all bad, they just don’t suck up to women like nice guys do. They’re indifferent, they couldn’t care less if a woman likes them or not.
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I think body language is very important.
But more so confidence.
But don’t get that confused with cock!ness.
Focusing your attention to the girl you want to focus on and look her in the eyes when she is talking to you and when you are talking to her isn’t “bad boy”
It is being focused and shows them that you are interested.
When I said confident I mean not twitching and babbling and checking the girl out every five seconds.
Think how girls feel!
Now that’s an entire different conversation!
I think women who fall for the bad boys are just looking for excitement. Or they all think they can change him. Which they cant and eventually get burned.
man… first of… i kinda not agree that girls always go for the badboy … ( with perspective that oh maybe i can change their attitude or bad boys are more cool ) cuz if girls are after bad boys that means those kind of girls are not good for serious relationship
or at least for the relationship itself.
cuz they are bad boys obviously.
secondly, i suppose they aware of their body langguange just cuz bad boys always giving those body langguage
about the girls aware of their attitude and such, well i think if they like those boys with that kind of attitude … she might have a problem … sistahh.. haha
I am always more attracted to the guy that touches my arm, my lower back when going through a door, etc… those small things ALWAYS get me, no matter what…but maybe that’s just because I’m horny and love the feeling haha
but yea a lot of girls go for the bad boy type because they are usually entertaining, fun to pleasure, mysterious…
hmmmmm…….. i have 2 say, i really dont notice “body langauge.” No, thats not true. i always feel uncomfortable around bad boys. i always look for the attitude and such. but looks always matters. tehehe. =D
It’s not that we really like the bad boys. We like their confidence, and, yes, that is shown through their body language.
im not usually one to go for the badboy type but others usually think that that kindof stuff is cool and they feel the need to change them into their perfect guy. WIERD!
ummm i dont kno ive never really payed attention too that. im a girl oviously but i have nooo clue if we girls watch ur body language…