Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.
Why is it that I only attract women? Men are never attracted to me, but women always are. Women flirt with me, they try to get me to go out w/ them, but I’m gay and I want a guy! I always thought everyone could tell I was gay, but everyone asks says that they couldn’t tell! This was disappointing, but how do I get gay guys to know I’m gay w/o pasting it on my head and how do I get them to want me?
My quick answer to this question:
Well, I’m not gay, but I think I know the answer to this guy’s problem. It’s the same answer as to guys trying to attract women so this is why I’m answering it here. Can you guess what it is? START DOING STUFF. Don’t sit around waiting for stuff to happen to you. I can bet you this guy is doing the same mistake heterosexual guys are making – he’s being passive.
Being passive and waiting for your sex-life to handle itself is wrong for anyone! Man, woman, hetero, homo… everyone. Go out and PROACTIVELY attract women, (or whoever you want to attract). Don’t sit around wondering why it’s not happening to you. Go out there, and start talking to women, start testing out different ways of being, stuff to do, stuff to say, and see what effects it has.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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Girls love gay men . . . or at least a lot of us do. Sometimes even when it’s completely obvious, you’ll find gals flirting with gay boys.
I’m not sure why you aren’t attracting guys- I’ll leave that to gay men to answer- and hope you have better luck!
cuz girls like gay guys but they dont know that gay guys dont like women.
I know where you are coming from, its hard but try to enjoy the attention from women, at least you are getting some attention
Yeah, I can’t say why guys wouldn’t be attracted to you.. but I agree with the above, girls do tend to like gay guys, because well.. they’re like us. They seem to just understand us better.
At least you are getting some attention! That means you must be doing something right! Just wait there will be one guy who will want you
Be more flirtatious with guys….but don’t make it overtly obviouse
I have the opposite problem and im straight.
They do want you but they’re in the closet.
go to some gay bars.. talk to the guys.. they will know people will see you with them other places it willg et around lol
same here buddy. it sux doesn’t it.