What Is The Most Effective Way For A Guy To Attract A Woman ?

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What I mean is what is the most effective way for a guy to attract a woman, to where she will take the time that is needed on her part to get to know the guy to where she does not bail on the guy with in a day or so or even a week later with out a date that is Needed to know what the guy has to offer the woman that she just might be really interested in?

My quick answer to this question:

Great question! I love how you phrase too and the bit about her not bailing. The NUMBER ONE best way to attract a woman for good is… to be indifferent. What does this mean? It means, do NOT give her too much too son. Don’t slobber her with attention and affection. From your question I can tell you’ve already noticed how this doesn’t work. When you slobber a woman with attention, all she does is dump you for the badboy next door, right?

And is he affectionate and caring and giving? HECK NO! Now, I am not telling you to go the opposite extreme and become an asshole (even though even that works better than being a nice over-caring guy). You can be good AND hard to get at the same time. You can be kind, without being needy and giving her too much, too soon. Just take things as SLOWLY as possible. Just get to know her and DO NOT hit on her, just befriend her, and let her make the first moves.

When she does all the investing, she has too much invested to bail. She’s the one pursuing you.

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