Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I am 34. I am balding. I have never had a gf. Does that mean I will never attract beautiful women?
Also, have you ever seen a gorgeous woman with a bald guy? When I mean gorgeous, she has to look like a VS model or a NBA or NFL cheerleader.
Answer:
I notice a different problem here dude. You say you’ve never had a girlfriend, and at the same time you’re asking what if its possible for a bald-guy to have a super-hot girlfriend.
I’m going to delay the answer and talk about something else here first… There is a relation between your focus on super-ideal-super-hot women and your never having had a girlfriend. You have unreal and idealistic standards for women. The reason you’ve never had a girlfriend is because you have fake criteria for what it takes for a girl to be attractive. It’s all bullshit sold to you by the media. No one looks like those “ideal” women outside of photoshop, and humans have been procreating long before retouching was invented. Its not natural to have that as your criteria.
To answer your question – yes. Bald guys attract women without a problem. In fact, baldness is a very masculine trait. Its only unsexy if you try to hide it. If you act like its a sign of masculinity, it becomes sexy. Just shave it, and you’re good to go.
Seriously, by your question I can tell you had problems attracting women long before you started balding, so think about it… You need to learn more about what attracts women (in terms of how you act and communicate).
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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Definitely NOT!!! I am a beautiful woman…. (hahaha, I have been told so) and my b/f is bald. I love his character and I think he is so cute!! I have loved him since I first put my eyes on him. Only superficial people really care about that sh*t and you don’t want to be w/ them anyways. I’d be more worried about how u feel about ur self. A woman can see that if you have self doubt. Just stay positive and you’ll find a woman who is into the same things as you and she will be a beautiful woman. I am sure of it!
Two words… Vin Diesel
look man, you gotta stop being so damn petty and just let life take you where you want to be. if you find a woman who is truly genuine and caring, she wont give a damn if you have no hair or too much hair…. your standards may be too high… and a beautiful woman on the outside does not mean that she is beautiful on the inside. its great to dream, but sometimes you gotta wake up… if you are that hard up for a “beautiful woman” then go to vegas and rent one for a week…. then go back to where ever you are from and find a real girl that is going to be honest and true to you
40 and bald and having no trouble at all its all about attitude and confidence my friend’s cant figure out why good looking women pick me but they do
Yes, I’ve seen it many times. Most of those guys just bite the bullet and shave their heads though…. I think that looks better.
Not so…;)
I’ve seen lots of gorgeous women with bald guys. How about Demi Moore and Bruce Willis? That’s just one example, but there are lots more. Seal (not only has a shaved head, but not great looking at all) and Heidi Klum, to name another couple.
Just don’t do the comb-over. Yuck. That definitely wouldn’t do well!
no. just shave it all off and tell the girls you shave it
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Don’t worry. You’ll be fine.
The fact that I will never go bald, nor any future son I may have is an asset I hope many women will admire in the potential father of their children.
The balder you get, the less competition you are to me.
ah but you forget about stress, enviroment, food additives etc
its not all genetics page, despite what we are told.
Hey man, don’t you worry about the baldness. Bald makes you stand you from the otherwise boring crowd. My girlfriend is beautiful; and I don’t mean ‘oh she’s beautiful in the inside kind of way ‘. She’s is damn smoking hot – a knockout 10!!! And you know why she picked me? Because I stood out from the other banal, hirsute collective. Ok, us bald guys might be perceived as having an obvious ‘weakness’, but trust me, really beautiful women don’t care. And don’t listen to these women who say, ‘ewww, bald is ugly;I would never date a bald man ; blah blah blah’. I’ve heard it all. These are usually the ugly 10 pinters that nobody pays any interest to anyway. Btw, for you ladies, us bald guys can be superficial too. Much Love, bro.