Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
Do women notice body language? I have noticed many guys usually shy away from girls, and always needy and leaning in toward them and breaking eye contact very quickly. Most of these guys dont really succeed when it comes to women, however on the other side of the spectrum are those confident bad boy guys that stare into your eyes for eternity and move their body so slow it looks like their underwater.. A perfect ex of a person that does these are James Dean, and Rudolf Valentino, and for girls of this gen. Johnny Depp
I notice girls always go for the badboy guys, but does their body language attract women subconsciously, or are the girls aware of their attitude and such.
My answer:
Not only are the girls attracted to bad boys subconsciously, but the bad boys themselves demonstrate their body language subconsciously.
Women aren’t logical beings at all, and they don’t look for logical signs in body language.
Confident men are confident internally, which automatically shows in their body language. They don’t go out and say to themselves “hey, let’s see how I’m going to emulate James Bond today by turning around very slow”. Unless they are guys who learned about body language, they won’t do it consciously. It will be automatic and a habit for them.
The same thing stands for women. When women see a confident bad boy going acting all smooth with his body language, they don’t think “hmm, his body language suggest confidence, I think I am going to feel attraction for him”. It’s simply automatic and hard wired in women.
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