Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I am beginning to think that i am incapable of attracting women. I am a senior in college and have never even had my first kiss, all of my friends are in serious relationships and i feel like i am going to be left alone i have had people try and set me up with girls but they always seem weird ed out by me, i never know what to say because i for some reason can’t read body language. does anybody have any suggestions on what i should do. By the way at this point i am not looking to just get laid.
Answer: You’re being too hard on yourself dude. If you actually do the research you’ll find there’s a ton of virgins today. In fact, more and more colleges, have more and more students where no one is having sex. Fuck the media and their unrealistic images. The truth is, most of us are just confused on what to do with the opposite sex.
You’re going through a phase, and its ok, don’t beat yourself up, because that doesn’t work. What you need to do is accept it and go, ok, so I’m somewhat weird with girls, and maybe my social skills aren’t amazing, but that’s that, I can’t change it overnight, so I’ll accept that’s the way it is right now… BUT at the same time I’ll be working on making things better.
And then, you can do some of the things I suggest. Go join as many social activites as you can (especially if they involve a lot of women), get some hobbies, join different groups and organizations. Over time you’ll find that you become more and more confident and relaxed around women. If you’re weirding women out, the only reason is that you’re too anxious around them and not relaxed. So relax, there is no hurry. You’re a guy. We can be 40 and still bang 20-year old if we make it in life. So decided to make this your most social year ever. Just take some time, read some books on being social and charming, and within a year, you’ll be looking back on this year with pride!
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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