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Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: What i would like to find out is what womens body language means, so i know how to react in different situations.
Like, if a girl is attracted to me in some way how will she act, while being subtle about it. What signs are what?
(not like comming up and being all over me, coz thats obvious hehe) also.
If i want to make an impression on a girl how should i . . . approach, strike convo (what to talk about), etc, and how to tell if she is interested or bored?
anything else that you could think of would be great!

Answer: Oh, its easy dude. See, even though girls are different and they have different signals, there are some universal ones that if you put them together can give you a pretty good picture when a girl is attracted to you.

The biggest difference between a party or a non-party enviroment is how direct she will be in displaying the interest. In a party enviroment it will be more with positioning, and less with words. In a non-party environment it will be a smile, and the words used (flirting).

Some girls are able and willing to look at you and smile when interested, some are not… But the thing they ALL do when interested in you at a party, is they start coming closer and closer to you. What you will notice, is that if you look at a girl you like, and smile at her… If she’s interested… what will happen is that during the night she will come closer and closer to you, until she’s pretty much dancing right beside you. This is the most consistent signals I’ve found women doing.

If she’s more confident, she’ll use her eyes, as in… You turn towards her and glance her way, and she turns your way and glances at you.

So basically, in a party enviroment, the best and strongest sign is… Does she make it easier for you to approach her? Is she going out of her way to make it easier for you to approach her and talk to her? This is either positiniong herself closer to you throughout the night… OR continually glancing your way.

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