Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: what are women REALLY looking for in a man?
what do they find most attractive?
Answer: Do you want the scientific nerdy answer or the real-world answer? I’ll give you both. First I’ll give you the nerdy answer, so bare with me, but later I will explain what it means in practical terms.
The number one thing that women are attracted to men is prestige and status.
The second thing is your level of masculinity and dominance.
What this means in practical terms is NOT what you mean. It doesn’t mean you have to be rich and muscular (although that DOES work). That’s just one way of showing prestige, status, masculinity and dominance, and unfortunately too many men pay attention to it exclusively, although there are DOZENS of other ways to accomplish it.
Here’s the GOOD NEWS. Status, masculinity etc… They’re ALL context-specific. What this means is that you don’t have to be one of the highest-status guys in that country, you just need to have higher status, privilege and masculinity than the other guys she meets.
Let me give you an example: If you you’re an average guy, and you join a dance class… Guess what? Most women are going to be all over you. Why? Because there are 30 to 1 guys in dance classes. Even guys who’d never get a singe glance from these girls in a nightclub, all of a sudden become cute to these SAME girls when in the dance class.
Ok, so that’s an easy example, what about something like attracting women in a nightclub, can it still be done? YES! Can it be done without being a rich VIP? YES!
If you’re an average guy, the way you can become the most attractive guy in a night-club for example, is if you’re unique or stand-out in some way. Ever notice how most guys stand-around with a stern expression on their face? Guess what, if you walk into that club with 3 female friends, and you act like you own the club and have a HUGE grin on your face… Guess what? All of a sudden you have prestige, you have the highest status in that club because you’re the most positively charged guy in that club. You can get privilege and status by either being the richest guy in that club, or being the most positive guy in that club – walk in, dance, smile, laugh, joke around with your hot female friends and you WILL draw attention.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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