Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.
I already know about online dating, etc. But from a woman’s point of view, what is the best place? What attracts women to guys that age?
My quick answer to this question:
I’ll give you a more complex answer, but you’ll like it once you understand its power. Now, I could give you answers like “dance classes, yoga class” etc… etc… But in truth… The location itself is secondary. The MOST important thing is that its something YOU love doing. If its something you’re passionate about, and you would do – visit even if there wasn’t a single girl in sight… then its the IDEAL. Women can tell if you’re there to “pickup chicks”. Ever heard the word “creepy”? Do you know what it means? That’s what it means, it’s a needy guy going around like a leech trying to find a “body” to attach itself to… that’s why girls mean by creepy.
So, the formula is:
Make a list of things you can become genuinely passionate and interested in.
Make a list of things that involve women.
Find the crossover between these two lists.
Go to these places and focus on a) the thing (dance, yoga, art, whatever) b) meet and talk to everyone there, male, female, young, old c) The signals from the interested women will start coming 
d) go for the women showing the signals
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Through friends, just an introduction to see if there are any possibilities. What attracts a woman to a man depends, a man who is confident, charming, intelligent, wise, cultured, cares enough about himself to keep himself physically fit, and successful with their life (translation – happy with how they are, learning from their mistakes, positive attitude and openness to accept differences – not stubborn and set in their ways). You can also meet a lot of women by attending conferences, business functions, building your social network – get involved with your community, you would be surprised at how many mature women single attend these events.
As a newly single gal of 39, I look at men in the grocery store. The trick though is to go late, i.e. after the screaming kids have gone home to bed. I also go to happy hour most Fridays. (Citysearch has a list of the fun places to go.) Finally, I am learning to play golf. It started as a whim to get out of the house, but I really love the game. My point is, just get out there. Every time you leave the house is an opportunity.
I like older men (my first husband was 21 years older) because they are usually established and stable, smooth and wordly. They have confidence, and know how to treat a lady.
Work, the gym, really anywhere…. I just think men are lookers but never ask. So get out there and ask.
I prefer men who are a little younger, but I’m not opposed to dating a man in their 40′s as long as they’re outgoing, fun, and attractive and take care of themselves.
Get your confidence up, what do you have to lose???
It is always best to not go out of your element….stay where you usually go just be more outgoing….a talkative man is a good catch….I like guys that are older they have a sense of completion about them….they are not into games….don’t take long to make a choice…are more secure with who they are….don’t have baggage……(usually) and they treat the younger woman great they feel fortunate to have a hot chick…..
chivalry,attention,maturity,protection,
conversation,stability
There is no best place- whenever you step out of the house make sure you are well groomed and presentable. Just as I would never go to the laundry mat with house shoes on, doo-rag, and PJs on…DON’T LAUGH see it all the time where im from!
EXACTLY SARA….ASK US OUT-DONT JUST STARE
well three of my aunts are gorgeous, sucessful, african-american women who are between the ages of 40 to 50 && they haven’t met the right man yet.
They tend to look in places such as chirch or community events.
I hope tht helps.! && tht u find the perfect woman
supermarket ,……..barnes and noble !!!!!!!!
http://www.affluentmeet.com/ it has lots of men and women in their 40s and 50s and they have more that you can expect….