Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: what are women REALLY looking for in a man?
what do they find most attractive?
Answer: Do you want the scientific nerdy answer or the real-world answer? I’ll give you both. First I’ll give you the nerdy answer, so bare with me, but later I will explain what it means in practical terms.
The number one thing that women are attracted to men is prestige and status.
The second thing is your level of masculinity and dominance.
What this means in practical terms is NOT what you mean. It doesn’t mean you have to be rich and muscular (although that DOES work). That’s just one way of showing prestige, status, masculinity and dominance, and unfortunately too many men pay attention to it exclusively, although there are DOZENS of other ways to accomplish it.
Here’s the GOOD NEWS. Status, masculinity etc… They’re ALL context-specific. What this means is that you don’t have to be one of the highest-status guys in that country, you just need to have higher status, privilege and masculinity than the other guys she meets.
Let me give you an example: If you you’re an average guy, and you join a dance class… Guess what? Most women are going to be all over you. Why? Because there are 30 to 1 guys in dance classes. Even guys who’d never get a singe glance from these girls in a nightclub, all of a sudden become cute to these SAME girls when in the dance class.
Ok, so that’s an easy example, what about something like attracting women in a nightclub, can it still be done? YES! Can it be done without being a rich VIP? YES!
If you’re an average guy, the way you can become the most attractive guy in a night-club for example, is if you’re unique or stand-out in some way. Ever notice how most guys stand-around with a stern expression on their face? Guess what, if you walk into that club with 3 female friends, and you act like you own the club and have a HUGE grin on your face… Guess what? All of a sudden you have prestige, you have the highest status in that club because you’re the most positively charged guy in that club. You can get privilege and status by either being the richest guy in that club, or being the most positive guy in that club – walk in, dance, smile, laugh, joke around with your hot female friends and you WILL draw attention.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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Sincerity
i love looking at their eyes and they have to have a great personality
Personally I find it most attractive when they’re not a man, they’re a woman
Darling, you do realize what category you asked in don’t you?
Not too much..
A vagina, in this section.
don’t bullshit yourself. girls won’t look at a guy twice if he isn’t good looking. one you got that going then add humor, be real, fun, and caring. girls love when you listen to them talk and make conversation revolving around them. flirting should be subtle but effective. i have many secrets and theories on how to coax girls into fallin for you, but i can’t reveal them lol.
Chris L, you are wrong. It helps if you are good looking, but dont you have it with some people that they just leave an impression in your mind after you saw them and they didnt do that much? Thats how you show high status. If a butt ugly guy comes in a club with a girl on his hand, I bet you all the money in the world that all the other girls will think, hmm he might have something special. If you look at celebrities, for example donald trump, hes not really a good looking guy, but I dont even know him, but he just shows high status wherever he goes. Thats what they mean with this article. You gotta have that special aura that women like and makes them think, wow this guy has something and I wanna know what it is. And you dont get that with looks, but with high status and its something anyone can get by doing different things like dressing well, but dress like no one else dresses, you gotta have that special item in your clothing that women attracks and want to talk about. Be confident, even if you are not confident, just pretend, by having good posture, chest up, head up and get some i dont care attitude. Start teasing them, flirt with them, girls dont really go for the looks, they are emotional people and if you do it right you can get any girl you want. It just looks like ugly people cant get dates but its only because they show no confident and think they are not good enough. I can keep writing about this but im not going to, maybe i should make a blog or E book for the less confident people on this planet
People dont forget, you only live once, just go for that good looking girl, most of the time girls are pretty mature and they will just show they are not interested, so you can find someone else. Everyone thinks the pretty girls will just embarass you in front of the whole club, they wont…and if they so what? Everyone will remember you as the boy that did go to the good looking girl not like all the other chickens that just stare at her and do nothing…just go for it, you will regret afterwards if you dont.